Category Archives: Home Care Advice
“I hate the drive home.” Supporting elderly parents when you live far away
The hardest part of visiting can be leaving. Explore how to turn distance and worry [...]
“I’m failing everyone.” Caring for elderly parents while working and raising children
A parent needs help, a child needs you and work has not paused. If every [...]
“Am I letting Mum down?” Dealing with guilt about arranging care for a parent
You know help could make the week easier. Yet a voice says you should be [...]
“Please stop fussing.” What to do when an elderly parent refuses help
You can see that everyday life is getting harder. Your parent sees another conversation about [...]
“Mum says she’s fine. Why am I still worried?”
Mum says she’s fine, but the little changes leave you worried. Learn what to notice, [...]
How to Talk to an Older Parent About Help at Home
If you think an older parent may need more help at home, start with a [...]
Questions to ask about support at home
Clarify the actual service, the responsible parties and the person’s preferences before deciding on support. [...]
Discussing planned breaks from family caring
If caring responsibilities are becoming difficult to balance, talk with the relevant people about practical [...]
Discussing everyday support for someone living with dementia
A diagnosis does not by itself establish what support is suitable. Discuss the person’s everyday [...]
Discussing support at home and other care options
Start with the person’s wishes and a proper assessment of their requirements. Different arrangements have [...]